Change. What a concept. We are creatures of habit and find discomfort in the face of variance.
But within the space of change, outside of the box, trying times, decisions - we learn, we grow, we shift, and we can find purpose.
Is it comfortable?
No, of course not. Its hard, its lonely, and just sucks. But its a necessary evil.
But why me you ask?
You are not targeted, it doesn't only happen to you, this is our narcissistic nature of the ego. We ALL face this change, it comes at different times and different forms. Endure yours and be sensitive to others situation - stop just shopping for attention and forget that others want to be heard too. Listen.
Purpose you say, how?
Well its easy and complicated at the same time. Hindsight is 20/20, when one door closes another opens, all of those common words of wisdom will come to fruition. And over time you will see how change gave you color and character, and within this process you can find purpose.
Purpose msurpose
I used purpose in an everyday sense. I believe it is false to think we all will/need to find a grand thing that makes us have value. We already have value right now, within us, with each day bring opportunity to know this. However, I do think the striving for this false goal of "purpose", lends people doing extraordinary things or at least attempting too. This is not a bad thing either.
What is bad it not being happy on the journey, to feel less without this "purpose", to not have contentment right now.
Stop the ego, and negative drive...even its for a minute, give yourself the gift of peace. Accept that you can be good RIGHT now AND also strive to do good things.
Moral of today - a long day from when I last posted but:
Embrace change.

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